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About the book


A remarkable book that will both guide and inspire, The Happiness of Pursuit reveals how anyone can bring meaning into their life by undertaking a quest.

When he set out to visit all of the planet’s countries by age thirty-five, compulsive goal seeker Chris Guillebeau never imagined that his journey’s biggest revelation would be how many people like himself exist – each pursuing a challenging quest. And, interestingly, these quests aren’t just travel-oriented. On the contrary, they’re as diverse as humanity itself. Some involve exploration; others the pursuit of athletic or artistic excellence; still others a battle against injustice or poverty or threats to the environment.

Everywhere that Chris visited he found ordinary people working toward extraordinary goals, making daily down payments on their dream. These “questers” included a suburban mom pursuing a wildly ambitious culinary project, a DJ producing the world’s largest symphony, a young widower completing the tasks his wife would never accomplish, and a teenager crossing an entire ocean alone – as well as a do-it-yourselfer tackling M.I.T.’s computer-science course, a nerd turning himself into real-life James Bond, and scores of others writing themselves into the record books.

The more Chris spoke with these strivers, the more he began to appreciate the direct link between questing and long-term happiness — how going after something in a methodical way enriches our lives — and he was compelled to complete a comprehensive study of the phenomenon and extract the best advice. In The Happiness of Pursuit he draws on interviews with hundreds of questers, revealing their secret motivations, their selection criteria, the role played by friends and family, their tricks for solving logistics, and the importance of documentation.

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Year published:  2014

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Quotes from the book

The Happiness of Pursuit: Finding the Quest That Will Bring Purpose to Your Life (Chris Guillebeau)

  • Everyone dies but not everyone truly lives.
  • Jump in with both feet. Stop making excuses.
  • I might fail, but I’d never forgive myself if I didn’t try.
  • Don’t try to explain everything, but do tell a few good stories.
  • If you want to achieve the unimaginable, you start by imagining it.
  • Everyone is busy, yet we all have access to the same amount of time.
  • Find what troubles you about the world, then fix it for the rest of us.
  • The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure.
  • Understanding what bothers you is just as important as understanding what excites you.
  • The right kind of misadventures—the ones that yield information—can produce confidence.
  • If you’re going to worry about something, worry about the cost of not pursuing your dream.
  • If your family or close friends don’t understand your dream, you need to find people who do.
  • It’s better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb than the top of one you don’t.
  • When you have completed 95 percent of your journey, you are only halfway there. Japanese Proverb
  • Must a dream have only one owner? Not if two or more minds see the world from the same perspective.
  • Always revisit my decisions in the light of new knowledge and information. Don’t be afraid to change.
  • Your comfort zone may be more like a cage you can’t escape from than a safe place you can retreat to.
  • Don’t just do something fun. Find a way to create structure around a project and build in a timeline.
  • Understanding exactly what you need to do and then finding a way to do it, makes a quest much more feasible
  • Even with the support of others, it’s hard to struggle through hardship without sufficient motivation of your own.
  • The outside world judges our actions based almost entirely on results–even though the results aren’t always up to us.
  • There’s an obsession factor with many quests. When you wake up at night consumed by your idea, that’s when you’ve found a quest.
  • We tend to judge risk based on outcome—but the outcome isn’t always up to us. Life itself is risky. Choose your own risk level.
  • If you want to make every day an adventure, all you have to do is prioritize adventure. It has to become more important than routine.
  • A good plan allows for plenty of spontaneity and room for change – but without a plan at all, it’s difficult to work toward something significant over time.
  • Regret is what you should fear the most. If something is going to keep you awake at night, let it be the fear of not following your dream.  Be afraid of settling.
  • The most important thing about art is to work. Nothing else matters except sitting down every day and trying. So, too, for a quest. The most important thing is continuing to make progress.
  • The right time to leave is when you’re ready, not just when someone else makes the decision for you. When a good thing reaches its natural end, don’t drag it out. If you don’t like the menu, leave the restaurant.
  • To truly live without regrets, pay attention. Ask yourself hard questions and see where they lead. Do I really want this job? Is this relationship right for me? If I could do anything, would it be what I’m doing today … or something different?
  • The long, slow grind of working toward something is all about loving the process. If you don’t love the process, the grind is tough. The grind is also a dangerous time. It’s when you’re tempted to give up, call it a day, or at least cut corners.
  • Every day matters. The awareness of our mortality can help us pursue a goal.  We all have a limited amount of time on earth.  Those who live in active awareness of this reality are more likely to identify goals and make progress toward them.  Or to put it another way: Everyone dies, but not everyone truly lives.
  • So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future.
  • If you’ve ever felt a strange sense of sadness or alienation, there’s a potential way out of the confusion- just shift this feeling into a sense of purpose. It’s not about happiness, although happiness often results from doing something you love. Instead, it’s about challenge and fulfillment, finding the perfect combination of striving and achievement that comes from reaching a big goal.