Soul contracts (quotes)

Some believe each soul enters into a soul contract before each life

  • Before it incarnates, each soul enters into a sacred contract with the Universe to accomplish certain things. It enters into this commitment in the fullness of its being. Whatever the task that your soul has agreed to, all of the experiences of your life serve to awaken within you the memory of that contract, and to prepare you to fulfill it.  Gary Zukav
  • God, or a source of divinity, put together a map for our lives. That map includes opportunities-not outcomes-but opportunities. And those opportunities are contracts [or] agreements-not that our ego or personality made, but our soul did.  Caroline Myss
  • I believe that we make soul contracts with ourselves and other souls before incarnating into our human bodies. Christiane Northrup
  • We have all unknowingly entered into agreements or soul contracts in the spirit world which direct our behavior in the present moment.  Laurence Galian
  • A soul contract is an agreement that you make with your spirit guides before you reincarnate on Earth. It’s the blueprint of your life. It outlines what you want to do while you are here, what you want to experience,” specifically “lessons that you will learn, want to learn, or feel the feelings that you want to feel. Taylor Johnston
  • Each one of us comes into the world as a custodian of soul-level partnerships—mystical agreements we enter into for the fulfillment of our divine destinies. Carolyn Myss
  • I believe that each of us is guided by a Sacred Contract that our soul made before we were born. That Contract contains a wide range of agreements regarding all that we are intended to learn in this life. It comprises not merely what kind of work we do but also our key relationships with the people who are to help us learn the lessons we have agreed to work on. Each of those relationships represents an individual Contract that is part of your overall Sacred Contract, and may require you to be in a certain place at a certain time to be with that person. Carolyn Myss
  • A life soul contract is an agreement with our soul and those who exist on a higher spiritual plane and govern the afterlife. Our personalised life soul contract includes our spirit guides our parents and family, friends and those who come into our life for long and short periods of time. Bill Tabone
  • A life soul contract means we agree to choose our family, friends and experiences here on earth. Those who govern the afterlife agree what we plan to do here on earth. What lessons we need to learn this time around. Not just learn but fully understand our lessons. Bill Tabone
  • It is said Soul Contracts are agreements, that each of us enters into before birth. Prior to the contract being made, your spirit guides allow you to choose from many life lesson scenarios. Your soul choices will then become the foundation of your Soul Contract. Rose Smith
  • Soul agreements are pre-incarnation contracts between two or more individuals. The theory behind a soul agreement involves life scenarios conceived before birth. Souls choose relationships and family ties based on lessons they wish to learn in human form. There is conjecture among some spiritual groups that soul growth can advance more quickly through human incarnations than in spirit form. Making soul agreements before birth gives souls a game plan to use to advance their spiritual growth objectives when choosing future incarnations. Phylameana lila Desy
  • Your life is about completing what you were put on Earth to do. Your agenda, or soul intentions for what you planned to accomplish, is contained in your soul contract. You took on many agreements, some large and some small, to fulfill over the course of your life. Each one of you has a soul contract brimming with agreements, and these include your overarching mission, a.k.a. your dharma, as well as the incomplete transactions that seek resolution and balance — also known as karma. Gloria Constantin
  • A soul contract is an agreement that you make with your spirit guides before you reincarnate on Earth. It’s the blueprint of your life. It outlines what you want to do while you are here, what you want to experience,” specifically “lessons that you will learn, want to learn, or feel the feelings that you want to feel.” Taylor Johnston
  • Our souls know when we come here what our life purpose is, and they plant lots and lots of people, experiences and lessons in our path to get us there. Those people and experiences are always leading us to our higher self, but there are tons of lessons we need to learn in order to reach that final destination of spiritual enlightenment. This is where our soul contracts with other people come into play. Dina Strada
  • Every soul that incarnates has a soul contract. The soul contract is an agreement between the incarnated soul and the Karmic Council. The Karmic Council is made up of elders and masters that help souls come up with soul contracts and also help them judge their life when they are in review. Within the contract is the challenges and lessons that the soul wants to learn from. The contract is agreed upon from a soul’s free will. That means everything that has happened and will happen to you in this life was agreed upon before you incarnated here. Beau Lawton
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A soul contract is a spiritual document

  • Our sacred contract is not a literal document. That’s the first thing to understand. We could think of our sacred contract as a spiritual document that our soul recognizes.  Caroline Myss
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The purpose of soul contracts is to master lessons and evolve our level of consciousness

  • The big-picture purpose of a Soul Contract is to master its lesson; the big picture of your Soul Purpose is to align with it and let it guide you.  Danielle MacKinnon
  • Soul Contracts are agreements, that you enter into pre-birth. Before this contract is created, your Spirit Guides empower you to decide which life lesson scenarios are going to enable your soul to evolve. These choices then formulate the basis of your soul contract. Hayden Crawford
  • We came down to this planet to do a great many things, and to further our soul’s growth. And much of our lessons have to do with other people and beings that we interact with while we’re here. Melani Schweder
  • Not every experience is for you to have within one lifetime. There are some lessons you have already mastered in the past, and there are others that will come to you when it’s your time. Vasundhra
  • As long as the lesson is resisted, it will resurface over and over again. And every time with a higher intensity, higher urgency. If you manage to let the lesson pass you in this lifetime, you’ll have to take it up in the next. Vasundhra
  • Basically, soul contracts are tools to help you develop a plan on how your soul can evolve in various ways, whether it’s human to human contacts, animals, college/education, certain professions, even certain events to happen, and natural disasters. All kinds of stuff. Maria Hill
  • The soul’s contract is just that: a contract that you, or more specifically your soul, drew up, agreed to and entered into prior to your earthly incarnation. The soul’s contract began in the Astral Plane. It was drawn up based on past, present and future life experiences, challenges, tests, failures and successes. The purpose of existence is evolution, and the reason we incarnate is to grow. Our soul contracts this lifetime for the purpose of growth, period. And this world, the physical realm, as you are well aware, offers no shortage of opportunities for growth. In essence it is one big classroom with lesson after lesson after lesson waiting for us, from the day we enter this school until the final classroom bell. Rebecca Rosen
  • We are also here less to learn than to remember who and what we are. In so many indirect ways we have been given tools to connect, ways to communicate and vehicles to tap the wisdom of the soul, the spirits, the angels and the Divine. Or as I have come to think of our mission—to discover, uncover and release the divine sparks that are hidden within all of life’s experiences. These sparks are particularly buried within the darkness, especially within the darkest recesses of our hearts. We are here to become Spark Seekers, discovering the sparks of possibility, potential and power, gathering them, growing in light, as we illuminate the world’s darkness and fulfill our soul’s contract. Rebecca Rosen
  • We all have Soul Contracts and essentially it is the list of lessons that we are meant to acquire in this life time in order to advance our soul to a higher level of consciousness. Tanaaz
  • Souls in this part of the cosmos achieve growth through experience of human emotion, so the most difficult parts of your life are where you grow the most. That would be the only reason that anyone would sign up for difficult situations. Beau Lawton
  • Much like soul lessons, there are always multiple ways a Contract can play out based on the choices and decisions of the players at the time. You can learn through the presence of something or through the lack of something. Soul Contracts tie directly into what we’ve chosen for our Soul Lessons.  They are here to further our growth while we are here on Earth. Like Lessons, that learning is sometimes lost because we don’t understand the experience. We don’t realize what we are supposed to be taking away from it.  Jessica Paschke
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Soul contracts happen across the context of multiple life-times

  • You’re a spiritual being having a human experience. And this life you’re experiencing now is just one small chapter in your soul’s journey. You’ve incarnated here many times before. And the driving force behind your all experiences are soul contracts. Sam Boomer
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Soul contracts include the experiences we will have

  • Remember that soul contracts are not just related to people in your life. Soul contracts also include experiences you may have with wealth or poverty, health and illness, a smooth trouble free life verses struggling with obstacles and blockages throughout your life, certain fears you may have or on the other hand you may have chosen to be an adrenaline junkie…..there are so many different experiences that you are here to ‘sample’ in all aspects of your amazing life. Whatever your soul contract entails, remember you have chosen these experiences to learn and grow. Allow yourself to do just that. Sam Smith
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Soul contracts include the relationships we will have

  • Various people are destined to come into your life to help you heal something either from past lives or from this lifetime. These people have agreed with Spirit to enter into your life, to help you to understand your emotions with greater clarity, so that you can reach greater levels of compassion and forgiveness. Hayden Crawford
  • Sometimes souls are meant to meet and fleet for they have different contracts to complete. Nikki Rowe
  • When you incarnate, you’re going to not only have a contract for what you are going to do in that life but also contracts with people: how you’re going to affect or work with certain people and the lessons you’re going to learn with those people. Maria Hill
  • Souls have deep connections and unique contracts that span centuries, exist back and forth in time, and bind us in ways we can’t really understand…. These connections are ancient and everlasting, and they already exist in our hearts, even if we’re not always aware of them.  Laura Lynne Jackson
  • We have soul contracts with every person in our lives to live in the vibration of truth.  Molly Friedenfeld
  • Sometimes it’s hard for us to believe that we had a soul contract with a horrible person. That person in spirit form in the afterlife is not a horrible soul but is actually very loving. They chose to be an a-hole in this life so you can grow so much further. Maria Hill
  • Keep in mind that just because you have a soul contract with someone, it doesn’t mean it’s going to be something pleasant; it could be something awful. It could be something amazing. It could be anything. It’s really custom for each individual, so it’s whatever your soul is seeking to grow. Maria Hill
  • Soul contracts are agreements we make with other souls before we are born. Souls we have contracts with will be those to bring deep changes into our lives through unique connection. These contracts are made with a special purpose, and that is to teach us important lessons we’ve chosen to learn before reincarnation. People we have soul contracts with will come to our lives for this purpose, and they will be an important and unavoidable part of our unique path. Graham Elkin
  • There are many soul contract relationships, and we make these with family members, friends, lovers and others. Before we are even born we have chosen our surroundings – our parents, where we will be born and who will be the first people to influence us. In our childhood we start to embrace patterns and schemes of behaviour that will establish our blockages and our primal wounds, just so that we can later heal. It is these patterns  that will bring to us people we have soul contracts with, and they will come into our lives to teach us about ourselves, who we are and who we are destined to become. These soul contracts affect our relationships at a deep, profound level. After meeting each of these souls, we will never again be who we were. Graham Elkin
  • It is not uncommon for these contracts to carry very intense emotions, sometimes very painful. It may seem they are here just to wound us even more and add even more salt to the wound that needs to heal. But, the truth is, they are here to help us become aware of that wound, and find the cure for it within ourselves, instead of suppressing or denying it. And we have chosen them for this very reason. Graham Elkin
  • With soul mates and soul contracts it is all about two people coming together with a mission to awaken each other’s capacity for unconditional love, find it within and mutually challenge personal growth. These people bring us challenges that we need to face in order to reach our fullest potential and learn about loving oneself and others. Graham Elkin
  • We attract relationships with different souls to help us learn about ourselves, sometimes through support and love, but many times through challenges. They are here to remove the mask and blockages by showing us our real selves. Then we will learn it is ok to let go of things that are no longer taking us where we would like to be – spiritually, mentally and emotionally. Graham Elkin
  • When we know it is time to end it, when we feel it is the right thing to do, eventually we are able to move on. There is a reason why this specific person became your lover and there is a reason why you didn’t stay together – they had a purpose in your life and once it’s fulfilled, the contract is ended. The relationship has served its purpose. It is how soul contracts affect your life. The lesson we learned remains, and it is ok to let go of what no longer serves us.  Graham Elkin
  • Many spiritual teachers believe that we create contracts with other souls, before we come down to Earth (or any other plane of reality, in theory), based on what we wish to learn and experience. Earth is a particularly dense place, and filled with incredible challenges, so it’s thought to be one of the “hardest schools to get into.” Only the most advanced or ambitious souls come here. Melani Schweder
  • Maybe you have people in your life you consider your “soul family.” From a universal, spiritual perspective, our soul family is the group that we tend to incarnate with repeatedly. You can think of a group of souls, hanging out, planning out their next physical manifestations, and deciding to go together. Sometimes, when you have the uncanny feeling that you’ve known someone your whole life, even though you’ve just “met,” this may indicate that they’re in your soul family. Or, even if you never meet them, your soul family members are all connected, forming a network that inevitably lifts up, heals, or evolves all members of the group. Melani Schweder
  • To learn the act of forgiveness, someone must take the responsibility to deeply hurt you. Thus providing you the choice to either forgive them or stay resentful. To know how to be independent and strong, someone must ensure they abandon you at your worst hour. Thus giving you the opportunity to either stand up for yourself, or fall down and succumb to your circumstances. So, everyone you meet has signed-up to help your soul’s evolution. YOU have signed-up too, to deal with them. Even the annoying ones. Yup!  Vasundhra
  • The term soul contract may sound off-putting, but it’s simply an agreement made between two souls to have shared experience with one another in the physical. There are no winners and losers. The contracts you create are for the mutual benefit of both parties involved. Sam Boomer
  • On Earth and other life-supporting planets, a soul contract is a binding agreement between one or more souls. It’s an exchange of energy by way of fulfilling different roles and functions for one another. By doing so, you create shared learning experiences through scripted episodes of drama. But these contracts aren’t always positive. In fact, they’re designed to create challenges, but ones that will help you grow on the soul level. The whole point of these agreements is that they’ll provide some form of lesson that you can integrate and take forward with you. And to that end, you can – and do – have more than just one soul contract when you come into a new life. Some will be new, while others will be holdovers from past lives you didn’t complete through either your inability or because the circumstances weren’t right. Sam Boomer
  • Soul Contracts are agreements made with the people you encounter in this lifetime and include all of the lessons you have chosen to experience with other souls. Before we are conceived, it is believed that our soul plans the life we will have. Every person that we have or will ever come into contact with is a planned meeting.” If we take that one step further, Soul Contracts are the spiritual contracts between two (or more) people that commence as soon as you meet. These contracts are devised to teach us important life lessons, move our lives in different directions or awaken motivation and passion within us. Valerie Gullo
  • Soulmate contracts are carefully chosen before we incarnate to best support our soul’s development. Our soulmate’s purpose is to help us learn and grow. Valerie Gullo
  • Soul Contracts are powerful and bring substantial pleasure and spiritual fulfillment. They can also bring about a great deal of pain and distress. It is important to understand the nature of your relationships and what they are trying to teach you. From a spiritual perspective, our soul’s purpose in coming to Earth is to learn and gain experience and knowledge. If you are in a Soul Contract that brings distress to you, try not to get lost in the pain; instead, breathe deeply and focus on the lesson. Thank the friend, boss, spouse or lover for fulfilling the Soul Contract. Thank them for helping your soul grow and learn. Valerie Gullo
  • Some of our relationships are bound by a soul contract, which is a serious commitment to connect with a certain soul and to continue the relationship from an earlier life. The purpose may be to tie up loose ends from this life, serve as a teacher for the other person, or start a new project together. These contracts are not legally bound by physical laws and supersede marital vows and gender.  Jane Halliwell
  • When someone comes into your life to teach you a lesson related to your karma or actions, he or she is known as your karmic partner and your relationship is referred to as a karmic contract. This person is in fact, one of the many soulmates that you will meet in a single lifetime. These people subconsciously help you in learning how to be whole. They also help you see all the emotions that need to be healed in you before your contract is over with them. Once you learn all the things that you need to with the help of this person, your contract finishes with them and you move on to other things and people in life. Nathalie Carden
  • A beloved pet. An intense romance. A volatile relationship. A chance meeting. What if I told you these were purposely pre-planned? There are people we meet in life that are here to help us learn or to get us to the next place. Sometimes the experience that occurs is positive, sometimes negative. Sometimes the relationship lasts a lifetime — a parent/child relationship. Sometimes you meet for just moments   — two strangers running into each other at a park and exchanging ideas and information. These can be Soul Contracts and they come in all shapes and sizes depending on what it is that needs to happen on both sides of the contract. Jessica Paschke
  • Often once a Soul Contract is fulfilled, the relationship will “run its course”. It will either fade or end because both souls need to continue to move forward in their experience. Think of how often someone has faded from your life. Can you see what you both taught each other? Can you identify the contract? Conflict and drama occur when you try to hold on too long to your Contract.  If you can see that the relationship isn’t growing then it’s important that you let it go with love and compassion.  Jessica Paschke
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Soul contracts include our pets

  • Are animals that we end up adopting or buying usually the same animal spirit that come with us in different reincarnations? What’s their purpose? Yes, a lot of times people will feel very connected to a certain animal they’d never met before. Then they end up adopting or buying one. And yes, a lot of times these animals do come back. Maria Hill
  • Many animals will make contracts for specific experiences. Some of them will agree to come in a part of the food chain to create an energetic exchange between the being that ate them. If they’re about to make the jump to become human in the next few lifetimes, they can make contracts with human souls to incarnate as pets. This allows them to move away from the hive mind sentience and have a more individualised sense of consciousness before their first human incarnation. Sam Boomer
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Soul contracts include how and when we will die

  • The moment you die and the way that you die has been predetermined on your contract. There may also be several other opportunities to leave the earth plane during the course of your life, which present themselves as ‘exit points’. At these times, you’ll get the chance to either stay or go. Once you fully accept that this pact has been made at a higher level, it will often release the fear and pain associated with the crossing. It enables you to recognize everything is unfolding perfectly and you are just waking up from a dream. Hayden Crawford
  • It may seem like a tragic young death to us, but that was not how his soul viewed it. The soul had accomplished what it came to do and it was a clear decision to leave. The soul viewed the physical death of that body as part of its larger plan.
  • But the soul’s plan for the physical life is the guiding force in a lifetime. It will choose the circumstances to leave life that best suit it’s life plan. Bill Tabone
  • Are some people meant to commit suicide as part of their soul contract? Is it to create a ripple effect in the community around them? What if it wasn’t in their contract to commit suicide and they did it successfully? It depends. Sometimes it is in your soul contract. Sometimes it’s not. Usually from what I’ve seen, there can be at least a few different potential ways you’re going to pass away, a few different exit points throughout life. You may use your free will to not do it. Maria Hill
  • Death is also included on your soul contract, but not as a date- rather it is at a moment in your life- a moment when you realize whatever it is that you need to realize in order to move back into spirit form Tanaaz
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We are given help by spirit guides and angels

  • Essentially, your Soul Contract is the deal you made with yourself in order to help you grow and evolve to a higher state of awareness but, you are not alone. You are also given some help along the way by your guides and angels. Tanaaz
  • In order to fulfil your Soul Contract you are also assigned a set of spirit guides, angels and people to help you. If you are open enough, you will constantly receive signs, messages and clues as to whether you are following your highest or destined path. Tanaaz
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Soul contracts denote how we will work with our spiritual power and energy

  • One way of viewing your Contract is as your overall relationship to your personal power and spiritual power. It determines how you work with your energy and to whom you give it. Finding and fulfilling your Sacred Contract also depends on how much you are willing to surrender to divine guidance. Carolyn Myss
  • From a scientific perspective, a soul contract is “energy frequencies that are embedded in your DNA”.  Taylor Johnston
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The implication of soul contracts is we get to choose our lives

  • We (here on Earth) have a role to play. We choose our lives even before we are born — whether we chose a good life or a bad one, it matters not, because there is NO good or bad. It’s just your chosen role. And ALL lives lived are essential for our evolution and development. (Near death)
  • Your soul contract doesn’t only involve the relationships in your life. It also includes your life experiences, events and circumstances. But whatever your soul contract entails, remember you have chosen each and every experience, to help you to learn and grow. Hayden Crawford
  • Even if a lesson is painful, trust that it was mutually agreed on a soul level, whilst you were disincarnate beings. Hayden Crawford
  • They’re nothing like the Earth-based contracts you might be thinking of with endless fine-print and stipulations. You’re in full control of the terms and don’t have to agree to anything. Sam Boomer
  • Life has been thrown into the world, light into darkness, the soul into the body. It expresses the original violence done to me in making me be where I am and what I am, the passivity of my choice-less emergence into an existing world which I did not make and whose law is not mine. Hans Jonas
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The implications of soul contracts is every experience and occurrence is meant to be

  • Every occurrence is a true gift to help you complete your life in the ways intended for you by your soul. You exist as an extension of your soul. You do not need techniques to activate or rearrange anything. Your life will bring you into perfect contact with experiences needed for fulfillment. Operation Terra
  • I have sent you nothing but angels and miracles. See the perfection in this moment. Your soul chose your life to create the opportunity to fulfill your soul’s agenda. You are, every moment, drawing to yourself the exact and perfect peope, places and events to experience exactly what you came to your physical body to experience. Neale Donald Walsch
  • Whatever events transpire in your life, they arise to help you evolve to a higher state of consciousness. These events can be both good and bad. Try and hold off judgments as they are happening and look for the bigger picture. Perhaps you didn’t get that huge mortgage because you are being called by Spirit to start a different spiritual journey? Try to see each event as a self-empowering step in your journey. Hayden Crawford
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The implication of soul contracts is we choose our family

  • This can be challenging to hear, but you did this to enable yourself to learn specific lessons and broaden your awareness. At a higher level, we even sometimes agree to endure abusive or extreme relationships, to help us to reawaken to our purpose on the planet. Hayden Crawford
  • In previous lives, you may have switched roles certain other people in your family,  and taken on different archetypes in their lives. So, for example, your parents or siblings may have been your children before. This is often arranged for the purpose of releasing karma. Hayden Crawford
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The implication of soul contracts is we are not alone

  • We are all given some help along the way by our Spirit Guides, Angels and multi-dimensional aspects of ourselves. To fulfill your soul contract, you have access to Spirit Guides or Angels, which change over time as your life unfolds. The more self-aware you become, and the more you develop and trust your psychic gifts, the more you’ll be able to receive and translate the signs and symbols left for you. These will ensure you remain committed to your highest mission. Hayden Crawford
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The implication of soul contracts is that life on earth holds some unique opportunities

  • Basically, the Earth is a unique place because of the dimension in which it resides and also the type of place it is, and the types of beings here can allow us to exercise all kinds of different potentials and evolve very quickly, because we can put ourselves through difficult things. Maria Hill
  • Perhaps those of us who have chosen life on Earth are the hardy, adventurous souls willing to risk the dangers of coming into an environment where evil exists. Perhaps that is the path of the warrior to spiritual evolution.  Bernard Haisch
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Soul contracts do not mean there is no free will

  • You incarnated on this planet at a specific time and place with a soul purpose. However, one thing that’s not predetermined is your free will and choice. This means that you decide how you want your life to unfold once you get here. Whilst these decisions are seen as your fate, one thing that you cannot change is your destiny. Your destiny is essentially to experience the unconditional love of the Universe, and it can take many lifetimes and many dimensions, in order to fully return to oneness. Hayden Crawford
  • I was shown a library filled with gold covered books. These are the lives of people on Earth where their life plan is laid out and what they hope to achieve through certain key experiences. From what I was shown, people have free choice as to how to get to these preset key experiences. They can take a meandering path of experiences or a more direct route, but there are certain events that are preset and will happen, no matter what. Each of those key events are benchmarks and one’s reactions to them will show how much they have learned and what more needs to be done, or learned. Jean R
  • Important encounters are planned by the souls long before the bodies see each other.  Paulo Coelho
  • This doesn’t mean, of course, that free will plays no role in your Sacred Contract. At any given moment — or “choice point” — your Contract may provide you with an opportunity for growth. It can come in the form of a challenge at work, the dissolution of an old relationship or the formation of a new one. Carolyn Myss
  • Soul agreements aren’t intended to be too restrictive or set in stone; they are based on the belief that “free choice” is attached to human life. Bill Tabone
  • There’s a mix of destiny and free will, and it’s different for everybody. It’s very complicated. Some people in certain situations have multiple aspects of destiny to fulfill there before they can really use their free will to recover from that. Maria Hill
  • Think of your Soul Contract as the mountain you were placed on- the mountain you were destined to climb. You can choose how to get to the top, you can choose which way you want to climb; each of these choices bringing about a completely different experience, but the destination will always be the same. Your mountain will continue to grow, shift and evolve as you do, but your purpose here in human form will always remain. Tanaaz
  • Free will is part of every soul’s journey. We are presented with opportunities aligned with our life’s purpose and we get to choose whether we want to take them or not. Dina Strada
  • Free will is included in the contract so they are always variables in a contract. For instance if a person has in their contract that they are supposed to be with a certain individual and that individual changes their mind or loses their way then a backup plan is always available. Most contracts are made and agreed upon with very strong language so if the soul steps out of the perimeters of their contract the punishment can be quite harsh. The life guide is the leader of your group of guides. Everyone has a life guide and that life guide keeps the incarnate soul on their path by using the contract as guide lines. The life guide makes sure that the other guides don’t give away to much information during readings or dreams. Beau Lawton
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Soul contracts do have break-out clauses and exit points

  • When you feel that your agreements no longer serve your growth or actually stands in your way, it is possible to free yourself from them.  For some people, this will truly allow them to blossom on their spiritual journey, and actually helps them to better serve the planet by raising overall consciousness. For example, if you have recognized a contract around poverty consciousness, that is no longer serving your highest purpose you can say the following: “I am Master of my own creation. I acknowledge that I feel fear about not having enough money and that it no longer serves my spiritual path. With the power of my higher self, I release this fear back to the Universe for the greatest good, to be transformed into the highest form of Divine Love and Light.” Hayden Crawford
  • I know the word “contract” can be a bit intimidating, (maybe this is why some people call them agreements? I dunno) but for me, because I also do some legal writing, I know that there is always wiggle room in contracts. There can be clauses and addendums, to allow for human free will, and when circumstances change. You can sometimes “get out” of a contract. Roles and goals can be altered too. Our spirit selves are always working behind the scenes, and tweaking soul contracts is something they do! According to some spiritual traditions, we may meet with other people in the dreamworld, to renegotiate our contracts. Melani Schweder
  • Contractually speaking, it may be believed that soul agreements have built-in “out clauses.” Because one’s best-made plans and goals don’t always work out in life, neither do larger spiritual goals. Bill Tabone
  • I have had many afterlife conversations with my friend (who took his own life), and he has told me “there are anywhere between 3–5 exit points in our life soul contract for every lifetime.” Bill Tabone
  • You can ask your guides to help rewrite your soul contract through meditation.
  • It can be rewritten to help you experience a more fulfilling life soul contract. If you feel tired of doing the same thing over and over and find life frustrating, or you’ve become depressed and stuck, this is a perfect way for you to rewrite your goals and life lessons and give you back your life and enjoyment that you wish to fulfil. Bill Tabone
  • Soul agreements aren’t intended to be too restrictive or set in stone, based on the belief that “free choice” is attached to human life. Contractually speaking, it may be believed that soul agreements have built-in “out clauses.” Phylameana lila Desy
  • Some soul contracts can be amended or even canceled for a different contract all together. A contract being amended is more common than a contract being canceled, which only happens in rare cases. So the soul contract that you signed up for in this life is very important because it is the source of all the challenges and triumphs regarding your current incarnation. Beau Lawton
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Synchronicity occurs when we are aligned with our soul purpose

  • When you’re fully aligned to your soul purpose, you will observe synchronicity or strange coincidences occurring to guide you effortlessly from one opportunity to the next. Another reliable clue from Spirit, that you’re following your highest path, is when you encounter the right people at the right time. These people have been placed on your path to deliver information, guidance, and assistance when you’re in doubt or wanting to learn. Hayden Crawford
  • One of the best physical clues that you are following your Soul Contract or highest path is when synchronicity occurs or strange coincidences happen that lead you from one thing to the next. Another good sign that you are following your highest path is when you seem to meet the right people at the right time who can offer you information, guidance and assistance when you are in doubt or wanting to learn. Tanaaz
  • Release the people, places, practices, and possessions that distract your soul from its contract.  Erica Alex
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Plato spoke about soul contracts

  • I go into the background for my beliefs in much greater detail in “Sacred Contracts”, but one fascinating parallel occurs in the writings of Plato. In the tenth and final book of his great work The Republic, Plato relates the Myth of Er. In brief, the story concerns a Greek soldier named Er who is left for dead on the battlefield. Twelve days later he awakens on his own funeral pyre, and later tells a remarkable tale of what he observed while he was suspended between life and death. Er found himself in a kind of way station between heaven and earth where souls were passing from one plane to the other. Dead souls were waiting to be judged and assigned to their reward or punishment, while other souls prepared for their journey to earth. Some were old souls returning for another go-round; others were freshly minted and awaiting their first life on Earth. At one point the waiting souls are presented with many possible life scenarios, and are advised to choose from these “samples of lives.” Plato informs us that “there were many more lives than the souls present, and they were of all sorts. There were lives of every animal and of man in every condition,” including tyrants. Before entering life on the Earth plane, however, the souls were led to the plain of Forgetfulness, a barren waste with no vegetation, where they were required to drink from the river of Unmindfulness. They then promptly forgot everything that had just happened to them. The reason should be obvious: if you know in advance exactly what’s going to happen in your life, you would have great difficulty making decisions or taking actions that are intended to teach you something, often through painful experiences. You might naturally be reluctant to begin a relationship with someone who you knew would hurt you, even though you needed to learn a valuable lesson from that person. Whether we take this myth literally or simply as a teaching device of Plato’s, we can use it to gain a higher perspective on our life. Carolyn Myss
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A belief in soul contracts holds several benefits

  • If you think of your life’s direction as something to which you have agreed, then what formerly seemed like arbitrary or even absurd conditions can be seen in another light. They are part of the roadmap that you’ve agreed to follow. Each event, each person of any significance whom you encounter, has an agreed-on role in your learning experience. Sometimes the learning is difficult because you don’t always surrender to the situation. It may take time for you to see the reasons for it. But the sooner you do, the less painful it becomes. In time, you can learn to accept each event as it happens without struggling against it and prolonging your psychic — and physical — suffering. To have a serious illness or injury is difficult enough; seeing it as a punishment or the cruel caprice of fate only makes it harder to bear. The resulting stress will probably also make it worse, and you will take longer to heal or recover. Naturally, you can’t be expected to see everything immediately, or in advance. But if you have a way of looking at the symbolic meaning of your experiences, you will be better prepared to accept the inevitable changes to your life. Fighting change builds up emotional scar tissue. Surrendering to divine will allows you to accept the changes, and get on with your life. Caroline Myss
  • There is a lot to explore when it comes to soul contracts, but the bottom line is: most things that you experience in this lifetime (maybe even everything) are outlined in your soul contracts. You are here in Earth School to learn, to grow, and to evolve. And yes, sometimes that’s hella painful. And sometimes it’s positively breathtaking. The major players in your life all signed agreements with you before coming here. To me, this offers a perspective that allows me to breathe and relax. It allows me to have more compassion for those in my life, and for myself. It allows me to accept things that happen with an attitude of curiosity. And ultimately, it allows me to forgive easier. And that’s priceless. Melani Schweder
  • Analyze for your present situation – is there someone who’s difficult to deal with? Are you stuck in a circumstance and have no clue how to change it? You must go deep down, and try to find the root cause. What haven’t you learned yet? What must you understand, so that you can stop running around in circles, and move forward to newer experiences? Conscious living is the mind-set that says – you are a soul in a human body, here only for the soul’s evolution. This helps us keep the drama at bay. Vasundhra
  • If you did your homework well for the test, then the best thing is going to happen to you. You’re going to laugh and say to the person who’s been treating you badly all this while – “hey, you don’t bother me anymore, I’m done with your BS”. And within no time, you’re going to notice them change their behavior towards you. Vasundhra
  • Then I finally saw it like a training ground. Soon I switched my mindset from feeling victimized all the time to thinking about what is there for me to learn and evolve from that experience. Then all the crazy things started to slowly dwindle more and more. My life became much more normal after years and years of suffering. I finally started to empower myself and it stopped attracting certain experiences because it no longer resonated with my soul since it had evolved past that experience. If there are difficult times, they’re much more workable or temporary, or my attitude now is good enough where I can get through it much faster. Maria Hill
  • Just let go. Let go of how you thought your life should be, and embrace the life that is trying to work its way into your consciousness. Caroline Myss
  • According to the theory of Soul Contracts, we reunite with those of us on similar paths for unlimited lifetimes, or until our specific duties have been fulfilled. This brings family members back together, as well as old friends and even antagonists. The idea of being connected to the people we know in our lives, over and over again, almost like an ensemble cast in a repertory company doesn’t bother me a bit. It gives us an opportunity to consider how we might change things the next time around. In turn, this can help us to deal with the people in our lives in the moment. The truth is that we are all connected, far beyond the acquaintances and family members we have in our lives. Mo Abdelbaki
  • The very thought that we made an agreement, a contract, before we incarnated gives a sense of self-consciousness and awareness that most people don’t carry with them on a daily basis. This simple realization can help to motivate us to be active in our own existence and not to allow the world around us to crush our spirit or goals. Mo Abdelbaki
  • Soul contracts indicate that every life is important. This may be the most vital of all the thoughts that arise when I think of a Soul Contract. If we can truly believe that every person, every creature on this planet, everything that happens and exists is a part of the divine plan of which we are part, then we must have immense respect for the lives, thoughts and existence of others. If we truly believe this idea, it becomes apparent that we cannot ridicule or injure others, for they are as much a part of the plan as we are. Universal respect for each other is the foundation to a potential for peace. Mo Abdelbaki
  • Soul contracts indicate there is a lesson in everything. We live our lives aspiring to achieve certain goals, but sometimes those aspirations fail. We’re here to learn and benefit, even by those things that don’t necessarily seem advantageous. There may not be a reason for everything that happens, but there is definitely a lesson to be learned, no matter what the situation is. Searching for that lesson often leads to a deeper and more profound sense of being and inner truth. Mo Abdelbaki
  • You agreed to it, so don’t blame and just get on with life. Mo Abdelbaki
  • Belief in a Soul Contract can bring great comfort and give sense to this hectic, stressed out world of ours. Mo Abdelbaki
  • By knowing that everything is an elaborate play, you can allow yourself to grow. We don’t need to try to rationalize someone’s behavior. And our pain should guide us, not make us feel helpless. The process of building yourself this way is called Ascension. As the name itself suggests – it is ascending or rising above the current state. The more you move up the ladder, the bigger a picture you’re able to see of your life. You become detached, but much more loving towards everyone. Because now, you begin to see that we’ve all decided to do this together. To build each other up even if it means, ironically, breaking each other down sometimes. Vasundhra
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What is the relationship between soul contracts and karma?

  • There is some overlap between the idea of a soul contract and a karmic bond, but the essence is a little bit different. To me, soul contracts are a bit more loose and playful, when two souls decide to try out something new! These contracts are signed because we freely choose to hang out together, and experience different roles in each others’ lives. On the other hand, karmic bonds are more urgent and a bit stricter. Karmic bonds form according to Universal law, bringing people together to fulfill obligations, repay favors, repay debts, or make amends for past choices. In my experience, karmic bonds can be very short-lived, unlike soul contracts which can play out over many years. For example, people involved in a car accident may be tied karmically, but not necessarily have a soul contract. And flip side, a committed partner of ten years may not involve any karmic bonds at all.  Melani Schweder
  • There’s also karma that you have to balance back out again, so there are certain karmic things that will be balanced back out in your next incarnation. Not as a punishment, but it’s simply a way to experience all sides of things. A common example: if you were the victim this time, you might be the abuser next time because you need to balance out that experience. This isn’t to diminish what you’re experiencing in this life because we were meant to experience it from a human perspective here. Maria Hill
  • The agreements you make are a co-creative pact between yourself and one or more souls. It is your free-will to do so. However, once they’re in motion, you’re then creating a karmic obligation. If you have had a soul group member fulfil a role that has created a drama between you, it must be resolved to complete the contract. The timeframe you have to do this is entirely of your own choosing. The quality of the experience that resolves a contract is far more important than the speed at which it’s done. You can sit on contracts for several thousand years before the right circumstances present themselves. So while the law of karma does dictate you fulfil all agreements, you still have a free-will choice in how that will play out. Sam Boomer
  • Unlike more rigid karmic connections, people connected through soul agreements choose to hang out together for a variety of reasons. Imagine a conversation between pre-incarnated soul buddies: “Wow, it would be cool if next time around we could arrange to be siblings, business partners, or lovers.” Karmic relationships tend to have an urgent energy to them, bringing individuals together to return a favor, repay a debt, work out their differences, or make amends for past misdeeds. When karma is in the mix, relationships can feel uncomfortable or binding, as if there is no escape.  Phylameana lila Desy
  • Karma can also play a part in our contracts with people, both in this life and the next. When we don’t learn our lessons, the universe conspires to bring us another experience to learn it, often with the same person. This is why you’ll notice the same patterns around relationships and circumstances in your life that keep repeating. If you see the same patterns repeating, ask yourself, “What can I do differently this time around so I don’t have to keep repeating this lesson? Dina Strada
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At times, we may be able to unlock or remember our soul contract

  • One of the hardest parts of coming to Earth School, is that our memories are wiped (or more likely, locked away in the depths of our subconscious) when we’re born. Thus, the whole underlying theme of this human experience is REMEMBERING. Remembering who we are. Remembering our spiritual truth. And of course, remembering the soul contracts that we signed before arriving. Melani Schweder
  • Our memory upon birth is erased, everything is stored away in our DNA and in our subconscious. We have to unlock the key we were given, and find our purpose, through our doorways here on the earth plane. Bill Tabone
  • Is there a way I can find out what my soul contract specifically is or like the main theme of it? You can ask your higher self. Also, here’s the difficult part: sometimes we’re not supposed to know our entire soul contract. You can ask your higher self or your spirit guides for the most relevant piece of your contract to be revealed that would be helpful to you. They’re not going to reveal something that’s not for your highest good.  Maria Hill
  • Look at your history and notice where you’ve spent your time and given your energy and attention — notice what you’ve gone out of your way to access and investigate. Especially take notice of what you’ve been willing to move Heaven and Earth to do! These actions reveal your soul’s interests and desires. Your actions, motivated by your desires, are clear indicators of your dharma and your karma — what you are here to work on and complete. Additionally, how you take action on the way to fulfilling your desires is a clear indicator of two critical pieces of information: your gifts, and where you are to be of service. Gloria Constantin
  • The best way to find out what is in your soul contract is to follow what compels you. Gloria Constantin
  • When you experience joy in being around certain things or having certain experiences, you have been given the clues to identify the contents of your soul contract. Gloria Constantin
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Some view soul contracts positively while others don’t

  • There’s a lot information floating around out there about what a Soul Contract is or isn’t. Some people view them positively. Some people view them like some sort of bad karma.  Jessica Paschke
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There is a religious backdrop to soul contract theory

  • There is some degree of formalized religious backdrop to the Soul Contract theory. I see it as an interesting mixture of reincarnation, Dharma, Karma. a strong Christian leaning and a divine presence, with whom we enter into some sort of agreement. Some call this presence God, others call them angels and some the Universe. Mo Abdelbaki
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