You teach people how to treat you…
- You teach people how to treat you. Oprah Winfrey
- We teach people how to treat us. Phil McGraw
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…by what you allow…
- If you allow people to treat you like a doormat, they will expect you to say WELCOME. Robert Breault
- You allow people to treat you the way they do. Your energy, confidence and attitude is the currency that others will transact with. Amy Chan
- I teach people how to treat me by what I will allow. Stephen Covey
- You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce. Tony Gaskins
- Maxim for life: You get treated in life the way you teach people to treat you. Wayne Dyer
- People treat us the way we teach them to treat us. Wayne Dyer
- To treat a person like a carpet, it is necessary that one do the walking, and one allow himself to be walked on. Mercedes Lackey
- Power comes from who you are, not what you have, and the transformation starts with how you allow others to treat you. Suze Orman
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…and by how you treat yourself
- Most people will not treat you any better than you treat yourself. Leon Brown
- You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts. Iyanla Vanzant
- The way you treat yourself sends a very clear message to others about how they should treat you. Denise Linn
- As you move through the day, be aware of how you treat yourself. Be aware of what you do to and for yourself, because you set the standard for others. As you grow in your awareness of how you treat yourself, you will probably become aware of the example you have set for others. You may realize that the time has come to set a new example. Iyanla Vanzant
- Even when I was down, I treated myself as a star and eventually the world would catch up. RuPaul
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Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others
- Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others… love yourself and you will be loved. Rhonda Byrne
- Treat yourself as if you were someone inexpressibly dear to you. Agapi Stassinopoulos
- When you do not treat yourself the way you want others to treat you, you can never change the way things are. Rhonda Byrne
- If you want to change the way others treat you, you should first change the way you treat yourself. Unless you learn to love yourself, fully and sincerely, there is no way you can be loved. Once you achieve that stage, however, be thankful for every thorn that others might throw at you. It is a sign that you will soon be showered in roses. Shams Tabrizi
- Here’s the question I would ask you to consider; do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you? James Arthur Ray
- Treat yourself with love and respect, and you will attract people who show you love and respect. Rhonda Byrne
- I think to always treat others as you would want to be treated yourself and treat every single person with the same amount of respect. It’s not often you see it, but sometimes you meet someone who is not very nice to their peers. But when you do, it’s a massive lesson in treating everybody with respect. Christine Bottomley
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As a parent, treat yourself the way you want your children to treat themselves
- Teach by example and treat yourself the way you would want your children to treat themselves. Ingrid Weir
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Our relationship with ourselves sets the tone for our other relationships
- Genuine relationships depend first on a healthy relationship with ourselves. Sonia Choquette
- You can’t hate/love others without loving/hating yourself first. Tyga
- If you love yourself, you love others. If you hate yourself, you hate others. Rajneesh
- You can’t have relationships with other people until you give birth to yourself. Sonia Sanchez
- Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. Robert Holden
- Your private relationship with yourself is a spring that will feed every other factor. Ashley Judd
- I am convinced we do not only love ourselves in others but hate ourselves in others too. Georg C. Lichtenberg
- People who love themselves, don’t hurt other people. The more we hate ourselves, the more we want others to suffer. Daniel Pearce
- We only hurt others because we don’t love ourselves. Learning to truly love yourself changes your relationship with everyone. Bryant H. McGill
- So then, the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself. Alan Watts
- The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself. Diane von Furstenberg
- Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others. Wilferd Peterson
- It is lack of love for ourselves that inhibits our compassion toward others. If we make friends with ourselves, then there is no obstacle to opening our hearts and minds to others. Dalai Lama
- Be committed to the relationship you have with yourself. We get so committed to other relationships, but often sort of toss ourselves away. We get around to ourselves only now and then. So, really care for who you are. Be committed to loving yourself. Take care of your heart and soul. Louise Hay
- The most important relationship we can all have is the one you have with yourself, the most important journey you can take is one of self-discovery. To know yourself, you must spend time with yourself, you must not be afraid to be alone. Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom. Aristotle
- The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant toward others when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrifice ourselves. Eric Hoffer
- My primary relationship is with myself- all others are mirrors of it. As I learn to love myself, I automatically receive the love and appreciation that I desire from others. If I am commited to myself and to living my truth, I will attract others with equal commitment. My willingness to be intimate with my own deep feelings creates the space for intimacy with another. Shakti Gawain
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Respect yourself and others will respect you
- Respect yourself and others will respect you. Confucius
- People will treat you the way you treat you. Robert Holden
- If you want to be respected, you must respect yourself. Spanish Proverb
- Respect yourself if you would have others respect you. Baltasar Gracian
- The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. Sonya Friedman
- If you want to be a doormat you have to lay yourself down first. Oscar Wilde
- How can you blame others for disrespecting you when you think of yourself as unworthy of respect? Elif Safak
- I teach the world how to treat me by the way I treat myself, and the way I present myself. Kristine Gasbarre
- If you respect yourself and you love yourself, that’s the only way anybody else is going to. Kristen Stewart
- Treat yourself with love and respect, and you will attract people who show you love and respect. Rhonda Byrne
- Respect yourself and others will follow suit. Most people will not treat you any better than you treat yourself. Leon Brown
- Respect yourself and others will follow suit. Most people will not treat you any better than you treat yourself. Leon Brown
- Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty. Pandora Poikilos
- …not until we respect ourselves, can we gain the esteem of others, or rather only then will it come of its own accord. Albert Einstein
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Therefore, treat yourself with love, kindness and compassion
- Your soul is crying out for love and encouragement. Take a moment to breathe deep, get present and find some compassion for yourself. Then, go out and treat yourself right; pamper yourself and take care of your needs. You are worth it Jennifer Young
- We must be our own before we can be another’s. Ralph Waldo Emerson
- Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort. Deborah Day
- You are not a mistake. You are not a problem to be solved. Treat yourself with outrageous kindness beginning today. Geneen Roth
- Treat yourself as if you already are enough. Walk as if you are enough. Eat as if you are enough. See, look, listen as if you are enough. Because it’s true. Geneen Roth
- I think everybody can be beautiful. Anybody can have beauty. It’s about how you look at the world, in a way, and how you treat yourself. Elizabeth Peyton
- When you feel yourself to be in critical condition, you must treat yourself as gently as you would a sick friend. Julia Cameron
- Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. Lucille Ball
- Your self-worth has nothing to do with your craft or calling, and everything to do with how you treat yourself. Kris Carr
- Spirituality is impacted not only by remembrance but by diet, stress, sleeping and eating habits among other things. Take care of yourself. Nouman Ali Khan
- Treat yourself as your own beloved child. Pema Chodron
- One of the things about equality is not just that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man. Marlo Thomas
- My advice to women in general: Even if you’re doing a nine-to-five job, treat yourself like a boss. Not arrogant, but be sure of what you want – and don’t allow people to run anything for you without your knowledge. Nicki Minaj
- Loving yourself…does not mean being self-absorbed or narcissistic, or disregarding others. Rather it means welcoming yourself as the most honored guest in your own heart, a guest worthy of respect, a lovable companion. Margot Anand
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Treat yourself with reverence and respect
- When you feel good about yourself, others will feel good about you, too. Jake Steinfeld
- It matters whether you see yourself as someone who is capable of effecting change or whether you see yourself as someone whose voice does not count. It matters whether you treat yourself with reverence or with carelessness. Every bit of work you do on yourself matters. Every time you choose love, it matters. Geneen Roth
- What you pay attention to grows. Pay attention to your loveliness, your magnificent self. Begin now. Geneen Roth
- Can’t you treat yourself with a bit more consideration?’ ‘Why should I?’ Mordion said, hugging the duvet round himself. ‘Because you’re a person, of course!’ Ann snapped at him. ‘One person ought to treat another person properly even if the person’s himself! Diana Wynne Jones
- If I was harsh with you, it was because I cannot bear to see you treat yourself as if you are worth nothing. Whatever part you might act to the contrary, I see you as you really are, my blood brother. Not just better than you pretend to be, but better than most people could hope to be. Cassandra Clare
- Once you realize you’re a spiritual being, you see life so differently. You respect things. You’re more responsible to yourself and others. James Van Praagh
- Deal with yourself as a individual, worthy of respect and make everyone else deal with you the same way. Nikki Giovanni
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Treat yourself as if you already are what you want to be
- Treat yourself like a fat person with aches and pains and a suitcase full of excuses, and good luck-you’ll stay exactly where you are. Train like an athlete and, though you may not look like one now, you will become one. Chalene Johnson
- Act as if everything you desire is already here…treat yourself as if you already are what you’d like to become. Wayne Dyer
- Treat yourself like an overweight, out of shape person and that’s what you will be. Why not train and treat yourself like an athlete? Chalene Johnson
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Treat yourself as well as you treat others
- Treat yourself at least as well as you treat other people. Theodore Isaac Rubin
- The need to treat ourselves as well as we treat others. It’s women’s version of the Golden Rule. Gloria Steinem
- If you had a person in your life treating you the way you treat yourself, you would have gotten rid of them a long time ago. Cheri Huber
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The way we treat ourselves also effects the way we treat others
- We can’t practice compassion with other people if we can’t treat ourselves kindly. Brené Brown
- Be wise. Treat yourself, your mind, sympathetically, with loving kindness. If you are gentle with yourself, you will become gentle with others. Thubten Yeshe
- Teaching the child to treat boundaries seriously teaches the child to respect the rights and needs of others. Thinking of another’s needs creates empathy. Warren Farrell
- The only relationship we can have in this life is the relationship we have with ourselves. We cannot love anybody more than we love ourselves. We cannot treat anyone any better than we treat ourselves. When you forget you, give up on you, or devalue yourself, anyone coming into your life has a universal responsibility to follow your lead. Iyanla Vanzant
- If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself. Barbara De Angelis
- I think the most difficult love begins with one’s self. How you treat yourself is something you bring to your relationships. Javier Bardem
- There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity. Nathaniel Branden
- Not caring how you look is but a brief step away from not caring what you do or how you treat people. And surely, if you treat yourself with contempt, you’re going to have little thought, care or compassion for anyone else. Lynda Lee-Potter
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And as you treat others, so you tend to treat yourself
- When you meet anyone, remember it is a holy encounter. As you see him, you will see yourself. As you treat him, you will treat yourself. As you think of him, you will think of yourself. Never forget this, for in him you will find yourself or lose yourself. Marianne Williamson
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Treat others as you wish to be treated
- In order to always treat others, as we would wish to be treated ourselves, we have to learn about each other. Karen Armstrong
- We get out of life what we put into it. The way we treat others is the way we ourselves get treated. Benjamin Carson
- What we can do is to live out our lives as best we can with purpose, and love, and joy. We can use each day to show those who are closest to us how much we care about them, and treat others with the kindness and respect that we wish for ourselves. We can learn from our mistakes and grow from our failures. And we can strive at all costs to make a better world. Barack Obama
- Treat the world the way you want to be treated. Mike Tyson
- Here’s the question I would ask you to consider; do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you? James Arthur Ray
- If you want to change the way others treat you, you should first change the way you treat yourself. Unless you learn to love yourself, fully and sincerely, there is no way you can be loved. Once you achieve that stage, however, be thankful for every thorn that others might throw at you. It is a sign that you will soon be showered in roses. Shams Tabrizi
- Never ask anyone to do what you haven’t done before and wouldn’t do again. That’s a pretty fundamental rule in leadership… treat them like you treat yourself. Things you don’t like, they don’t like. Ross Perot
- We need to start treating ourselves how we deserve to be treated, even if you feel that no one else does. Prove to the world you are worth something by treating yourself with the utmost respect and hope that other people will follow your example. And even if they don’t, at least one person in the world is treating you well: You. Carrie Fletcher
